To BI or not to BI

I just got into an argument yesterday with a friend about the preference of gays! particularly on the topic of Bisexuality. i was just explaining how i am pissed of with the attitude of Bis that they are on top of the hierarchy in the gay kingdom. actually this thought occured to me a long time ago when i personally experienced hostility from those kinds. i mean wats their problem! come to think of it no matter what u call it, whether it be Bi, discreet, effem etc. the reality is we are still all gays. Its just funny how the gay community embraced the idea of bisexuality but dont really know what a Bi really is. In western countries they dont call themselves BI intead they call themselves gay as in gay man because Bisexuality is a different thing. FYI Bisexuality must be a simultaneous attraction to both male and female not male and gay!

well back to my story. it actually started when we went to a bar in malate wer the prominent ppl are the so called BIs(as if) or discreet gays! in short girlygays or mujeristas like me dont belong there! well FYI we dnt rily wanna hang out there its just that a friend of mine is celebrating his bday there! so i was explaining how this so called BIs(as if again) are rily looking at us in a funny condescending way as if we have a contagious disease but wen u luk at them straight they cant even luk straight at us as if if they wer afraid! well they'd better be!!! my friend, who also belongs with the so called BI crowd(as if), suddenly became defensive with my statement for some reason i dont know! he started telling me that i was just insecure with them! pleazzzzzzzzz! how can i be insecure with persons that differ so much form me! i mean wer is the point of comparison! i am very at ease with my preference! at least im being true to myself! not like them who have to project in that way to hide from people who discriminates our kind! well i think that this discrimination is a challenge and i am not afraid to face it! the hardest thing in this world is to live in it but i choose to be brave! I choose to live! he was missing the point! my only point is that they should stop being hostile with the girlygay kind! i rily dont care what their preference whether they are really BIs or just pretending to be one. My point is they dont have the right to look down on their own kind and have this authority complex. I mean its bad enough that i get discriminated by heterosexuals but to get it from my own kind! PLEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! spare me the hypocricy! that really pisses me off! if they dont like to respect my being a girlygay then they dont have to demand respect of their so called preference! I was silent with this issue for so long but I have decided that i wont anymore keep silent about this! if they rididule me then i will ridicule them! an eye for an eye! a tooth for a tooth! I have nothing against BIs or discreet gays because i do have friends like that! i am not generalizing but majority is like that! i am just puzzled that why do they get defensive whenever this topic comes up! then i had an epihany! i realized that those who are so defensive are the fake BIs! they are defensive and hostile because they are hiding sumtng and they r not being true with themselves. the real ones however are just cool about it because they know who they are and they are secured with their preference. then it dawned to me that those fake ones are the insecure ones because they are not rily BIs! they are Bi pretenders! they are actually effems, discreet or even a former girlygay who are weak and have no guts to fight for what they believe in and gave in to the pressure of a discriminating society! but the truth is i dont blame them nor am I saying that they should follow me! we may be all gays but we r still individuals with differences! what i am rily trying to say is that the hostiliy should stop! its not as if we r disturbed by their presence! i rily dnt know why they are disturbed with ours!

well back to my argument! so my friend and i argued till the end! and he was still defensive and keep on deviating on the real issue i was raising! we ended up putting down the phone because he was very defensive because he cannot rily contradict my point! in short, he was resulting to an argument because he knows i have a point! the funny thing is he is not even a BISEXUAL but a fake one! so hus insecure now! i just realized that as long as this so called BIs continue on fooling themselves then the hostility will not stop!

Let me leave you all with a favorite quote of mine! i stand by this 100%!
NO AUTHORITY IS HIGHER THAN REALITY.
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Truth isn't a matter of your personal viewpoint.
Learn to see things as they really are,
not as you imagine they are.

Wrong is wrong, no matter who does it or who says it.
No matter what you believe, it never changes the facts.
If they are there, the facts always speak for themselves.

The truth does not change because it is, or is not,
believed by a majority of people.
If sixty million people say a foolish thing, it's still a foolish
thing.

The sky is no less blue because the blind man does not see it.

So no matter what you call yourself BI, EFFEM, DISCREET etc. it doesnt change the reality that you are gay!
NUFF SAID!